I used to think what is the use, for people out there, studying relationship? Why they learn about human intimacy, love, marriage, even they made a research about it?

Yes. I once thought about it, then it’s forgotten. However, now I’ve just gotten the answer after reading a foreword in Getting The Love You Want by Harville Hendrix. I know now the reason why people study and researching human relationship is to teach people like me – who don’t understand relationship and know nothing about it. They studied so I should know what I need to do to love.

They studied in order to teach people like me to start from a scratch. Love seems simple and complex at the same time. So much complicated to let a Doctor and a therapist to help me.